How much will you hate me if I tell you that the word ‘reinvention’ is beginning to irritate me. Buzz words have that effect on me. Their familiarity breeds contempt, not to mention antipathy. Today in my annoyed state, I started thinking about what reinvention actually means. Is this a word that actually applies to us?
According to the dictionary (Merrimen-Webster) there are three meanings for the word reinvention:
1 : to make as if for the first time something already invented <reinvent the wheel>
2 : to remake or redo completely
3 : to bring into use again
At first I thought that Definition #1 didn’t really apply to us. I even started to write… “It doesn’t apply unless we’re getting extremely esoteric, as in reinventing the midlife woman….” Oh. That stopped me. Reinventing the midlife woman—isn’t that exactly what we’re trying to do here at More.com? To take the tired old truisms about women in midlife—what they want, what they’re capable of, what they look like, what they deserve—and make a new model. A new wheel, to continue the metaphor. One that is smooth and perhaps bound in rubber, rather than rutted and cracked and woefully off-kilter.
But that’s a grand concept, and Grand Concepts tend to give me a headache. Besides, they’re only good when you’re in grand company and since it’s just you and me here, the whole notion is just too impersonal.
Which leaves me with #2 and #3. Can I own one or both of them? Well, not really. I have a problem with “to remake or redo completely.” I don’t want a complete redoing. I don’t even know that I want a partial one. That smacks to me of a total dissatisfaction with my self and my life—which is just not, for me, the case. And #3, “to bring into use again” also seems somewhat direr than I feel. What part of me actually needs to be brought into use again? Has something in me atrophied over the years? My ambition? No. My drive? No. So what, then?
If I really think about what I’m doing here, it’s not reinventing my self; it’s just continuing along the same upward plane of development that I’ve been on all along. And realizing that, I see that the only definition that applies is the Grand Concept, reinventing the midlife woman. That’s something that we do as a group, however. It's an aggregate of each of us continuing along our same upward planes of development, wherever they may lead us. Individually most of us are not reinventing ourselves—no need to—we’re just moving on.
And you? What does reinvention mean to you?
