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Mika's Do-Over

Morning Joe’s Mika Brzezinski went from being fired and frustrated at 39 to having a TV show, a radio show, a book and a happy family at 42. Here’s how she turned her life around.

IT’S FIVE AM on a Wednesday morning at MSNBC’s Manhattan studio, and Mika Brzezinski is trying to tell a story. It’s difficult because she’s also getting her hair washed and reading the day’s news-papers on her Black-Ber-ry. Brzezinski, head back, holds the device above her face while a stylist scrubs. “Your job,” I prompt. “How did you get your job?”

In a circus-worthy feat of multi-tasking, Brzezinski, who has to be on air in an hour, starts to talk—while still read-ing and being lathered—in almost perfect, ready-to-print sentences. She tells me that two and half years ago, she was facing the most stressful day in a television newswoman’s life: her fortieth birthday. It didn’t help that Brze-zin-ski was not, as she is now, cohost of both a highly rated morning show and a nationally syndicated radio show, and author of a forthcoming book. Her glory days at CBS News (as a correspondent for 60 Minutes and an-chor for the CBS Evening News) were over. She was, to put it plainly, well on her way to being another bit of blonde road-kill on the TV highway. Her family’s Christmas card that year depicted Brzezinski in a bathrobe, toting a bottle of vodka, with her two daughters holding up a sign that read, PLEASE FIND HER A JOB, PLEASE!  

Although she looks like one of those golden, gorgeous creatures (even before makeup) who think a business obstacle is having to give up the corporate jet, the reality is that Brzezinski’s path to TV celebrity status has been complicated. In 1997, when she was 29 and the mother of a two-year-old, Brzezinski landed a plum gig: anchor of CBS’s national overnight news program Up to the Minute. She was confident she could balance a grueling, high-powered job and family life the way her parents had—dad Zbigniew Brzezinski was national security adviser to President Jimmy Carter, and mom Emilie Benes Brzezinski was a successful artist—but having it all turned out to be cruelly stressful. “I was weeping every day,” she says. Then, only months into the new job, she got pregnant again.
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09.28.2009
Angela Rogerson
I just don't see the "good role model" in the story. The story I read was one about a woman who admittedly puts her family on the "back burner" to advance her career. I quote, "There were times when her kids were on the back burner." Another quote, "Kids can see that their mother is more than a mom or wife, that she has things that make her happy and bring her joy, and they want her to be able to have those things." I assume the "thing" she is talking about is her job. My favorite quote in the story is this, "If I were trying to do it the way I used to, without enough support (i.e. nannies), I couldn't either. I'd rather spend one good hour with my kids a day than eight bad ones. It's called restraint, transferring power and control, and admitting what I am not good at doing." She's admitting she doesn't think she's good at raising her kids. Thank you, Mika. I have been waiting for working moms to admit that...it's really hard to do both, have a high-powered job and be a mom.
09.27.2009
ann powers
Okay, maybe i went overboard and talking about her being a "super-mom" but i wasnt saying that she was the super-hero in essence, but that she's a super mom in not letting her past judgements bring her down or even make her weaker. She was better for her family to step back and re-organize her priorties and despite CBS canning her, she's found stronger footing @ MSNBC.
09.27.2009
Rhonda
Mika's successful career, her many accomplishments, and the journey that she took to reach her current position is an inspiring story and this is what makes her a good role model for all young women and especially for her daughters. Mika is very honest in sharing her story and unfortunately this opens her life up to much judgment. Few people are this honest with themselves, much less with outsiders, As women we need to support each other rather than pass judgment.
09.27.2009
Angela Rogerson
I read this story with a much different perspective. Mika is not telling us that she is a great parent. Quite the opposite, she is admitting her failures as a working mom is admitting she can't do it all. I think it's a pretty "ballsy" article and I thank her for her candor. She definitely is not a "mother" role model so I am not sure what Rhonda is saying when she uses that term. She's not a super mom either. She admits in the article that she doesn't do much mothering at all. She did not want to even divulge how much outside help she has with her children. So thank you Mika for being honest with us.
09.26.2009
ann powers
totally agree, Rhonda. Mika's story has that affect on you and she's the kind of person to tell it like it is and not mince words, especially when it came to getting fired from CBS. I enjoy her and although she feels differently about soda consumption in the US (a morning joe topic), i still enjoy her. ann
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