Let’s be real- all “good girls” (and guys) have “bad” sex and love it. You can be as glacially cool as the immortal icon of the 1950’s Grace Kelly, in public, but you act like an insatiable, adventurous, 1980’s Madonna in private. The outside you is nothing at all like the “you” in the bedroom or anywhere else you fulfill your sexual desires.
And guess what? You’re not alone. Seemingly demure, “proper” couples are being very, very naughty and having a hell of a great time.
Sex has always been an area of hot contention. In the not too distant past, religious edicts on what was and wasn’t acceptable, medical dictates of how sex could adversely affect your health gave misguided and totally far-fetched “rules.” Remember we’re talking about “experts” who once claimed horrid things would happen to you if you masturbated or indulged in unsavory practices such as oral sex!
But the reality check is that the majority of people in past generations more than likely paid as little mind to what was said as we would today. What you do in private is nobody’s business but yours.
Sexual adventures are some of the best adventures you can have. The woman who opens herself up, (no pun intended here), to new and exciting sex is the woman who has given herself the key to erotic pleasuring for life. What a gift to yourself and your lucky partner! The key to indulging your erotic fantasies is twofold – a partner willing and eager to go on these adventures with you and a bond of unbreakable, absolute trust you have with each other. After that the sky’s the limit as far as sex goes.
Nothing between two consenting adult partners should be off-limits. The realization that you have complete sexual freedom together is an aphrodisiac all by itself. The small group of women and men I interviewed during a seminar on sexuality and love agreed wholeheartedly.
“There are things I’ve done that I’ve never discussed with anyone before. Let’s just say that as far as sex goes, I have experienced it all,
