Married ladies, when you vowed to love, honor and cherish, did you vow to be BFF’s? Did you promise to share all secrets, feelings and thoughts with the man you promised to share your life with? If you have BFF’s, like my VUVS (my name for my BFF’s), are you cheating on the one you said “I Do” to?
Seriously ladies, take my silent quiz. A silent quiz involves a question you answer only in your head and think long and hard before ever sharing your answer out loud. The silent quiz is a useful tool when the answer to a question is certain to get you in trouble, like asking a man, "Have you stopped beating your wife?" No right answer ... see what I mean?
Answer this: On whom do you rely more for “Emotional Maintenance”.....your Vuvs or your spouse?
Remember, zip it ... it's a silent quiz.
What? You have a question? You want me to better define “Emotional Maintenance” No problem.
Say your experiences and emotions on any given day are like the tracks on a roller coaster. There’s flat track, steep uphills, crazy downhills and loop-the-loops. On a ride through your average day, who do you rely on more to help keep you from “tossing your proverbial cookies?” Vuvs or your spouse?
I have polled many a Vuv on this issue (again, I remind you that when used generically, anyone with a Vuv is, in the world according to me, a Vuv) and I will help you with this one. When it comes to Vuv issues, we must go to those who are best equipped.
