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Unconventional Life

My life has always been unconventional so I don't know if this really counts as reinvention.  At age 36, after being passed over for yet another promotion, I decided to quit my secure secretarial job at the phone company and go to school.   I bounced this idea off many people because it was a risky decision .. only one person was aghast and it was somebody who I didn't admire all that much anyways.  I figured if she thought it was a bad idea then it had to be a good idea.

So at 36 I started as a non-traditional student in the 2+2 program at the local university -- 2 + 2 implying that you would work towards a two year degree and some of those classes would count towards a four year degree.  I decided to major in computer programming as a start.  I completed a five-year program in four years and began  my new IT career at a national bank at the age of 40 !!!   Before I hit 41, I enrolled in the Masters program.  This degree took me a bit longer because I became pregnant with my first child at 42 -- then a second child at 44.   So I reinvented myself from middle-age single secretary to middle-age mother who happens to work as an application developer and am so glad I did :)   I have never been unconventional but it works for me.

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02.19.2010
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@convertible girl -- so sorry I didn't realize anybody had posted a comment! the last line is kind of hosed up and should read "I have never been conventional ..." So many women just try and do the norm -- It doesn't sound like you necessarily fall for that old line either. I may DO the norm just maybe not in the same timeframe as others or maybe not the same way. I love who I am and I'm hoping I can provide a good strong female role model for my boys... Go with your gut -- and remember me when you're one of those top Elite models! i can totally see that
It so totally counts and even more so than the others!! wow... I loved your story. It's so different than what I've been reading on this website and totally refreshing. I'm so, so sick of hearing about these woman who have had successful jobs and BIG degrees and are now looking to reinvent themselves at 40--boo hoo-who cares!!. I totally related and respected your story so much more than the others (esp. being unconventional-I always wanted to model). You went back to school, pursued your idea and had children on top of that, I'm still shaking my head- you should be on the front cover of this magazine. I was an assistant for most of my career and was always looked down by these "other" career women. Today I am married, still gorgeous and fortunate that I don't have to work, but I totally want to and this story makes me feel so much better about entering the work force again, although I still don't know what it is I want to do. Oh and BTW, today I look down on them! :)
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