Eliminate the excuse of being too tired or too inebriated to have sex by planning it for when you’re at your best, says Kellogg. You've probably heard the benefits of morning sex, but consider pre-dinner sex—or what Kellogg likes to call “a sexual appetizer”—too. Chances are you won’t be too exhausted or too drunk to perform. And, during your post-romp dinner you'll be happy and glowing with a secret no one else knows.

Feng Shui experts believe that having a kissing sector or communication corner in your room will make you a more sensual partner. Get a similar boost without going New Age by rearranging the layout of your boudoir or buying new linens. Making simple changes in the bedroom can give you the feeling of being on vacation, says Kellogg. "Novelty is a huge issue when it comes to revitalizing your sexual energy.”

Stock up on hot stories. Reading erotic literature will eradicate thoughts of laundry, bills, and other things on your to-do list during sex, says Kellogg. Naughty novels also help remind us of our body's responses to x-rated thoughts, which can ramp up desire. Set aside 20 minutes, three times a week for story time. Need a recommendation? Check out books by Lonnie Barbach, suggests Kellogg.

"We have the ability to buy orgasm enhancement agents, things that are clinically proven to either decrease the time it takes to orgasm and/or increase orgasm intensity," says Kellogg. But only two products are clinically and medically proven to help: Zestra arousal oil and KY Intense arousal gel. Tell your partner you have something new to try, then introduce the oil or lubricant into your sexual routine. You'll feel more comfortable during sex and may experience something new.

Note: Make sure to read the product's ingredient before use to avoid allergic reactions.

And no, we’re not talking about in the bedroom. Push the envelope by doing quasi-dangerous or novel activities as a couple. Adventurous experiences increase the production of dopamine, which, in return, increases sexual thoughts, the likelihood of acting on those thoughts and the desire to seek sexual rewards, says Kellogg. Schedule some time to go kayaking, hiking or to try new foods.

This may seem cliché, and it’s not for everybody, but using sex toys can spice up your love life, says Kellogg. Ask your partner if they would be comfortable with you brining a penis sleeve or vibrating ring into the bedroom. Products such as these will keep you both pleasured, while adding a little fun.