We Hear You! Letters from Our October 2011 Issue

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My husband fell apart mentally after the 2008 market crash and has not been the same guy since. He worked for Lehman Bros. for over 32 years and we lost several million dollars in Lehman stocks. He refuses to take an antidepressant. He also has "disappeared" as my best friend and buddy, especially since I have required several surgeries including having both of my knees replaced. He told me, "I cannot be your care giver." How disappointing to come towards the last half of my life, thinking I was with my life partner and best friend---but cannot rely on him because he is so "self absorbed". What happened to "for better and for worse?"

I am optimistic that I can weather through this hurdle of getting into the swing of the "retirement" age group. However, it would be really nice to read a magazine that covers ALL ages, styles of hair and clothing for all shapes and sizes (!), and issues that pertain to not just the women in the age 35-50 realm.

Again, I love your magazine and the format but would like to see MORE!
--Karen E. Phillipp, Burr Ridge, IL

Thank you for your Editor's Letter in the October 2011 issue. It made me continue reading today. My sister in PA sent me an unbeknownst gift and one recent day your magazine entered my world. I appreciate who you've become.

I’ve included a short piece I wrote this evening as I read your magazine, considering a submission for the More.com blogosphere. I'll register it on More.com, but thought you might like to know that you touched my life tonight and I am grateful.
--Mary Cassidy

I'm sitting in the salon having my hair colored and reading More's October issue. Your Editor's Letter struck a chord with me. Like you, I feel I've hit my stride with a happy balance between these two sides of myself - beauty and brains.

At 52 I look 40 and still feel 30! Lucky for me I have great genes but I also workout, have a regular yet simple skin care routine and take care of myself. I love fashion and can't wait to clean out my closet and buy new things each season. I'm sitting here now in my favorite worn Joes jeans looking forward to wearing a fitted little black dress to a black tie event this evening.

As for the brains part - I work for a Fortune 500 company as a vice president responsible for a global business unit. It's not unusual to find magazines like More next to The Wall Street Journal in my briefcase.

Thanks for providing women like me a great magazine!
--Candy L.

I'm an average (I think, some may argue) Jane Q. Public reader and I enjoy your magazine. A few things I would like to see are:

Men in Uniform: What's the fascination? Why do we love them? Who cares? We just do! (Lots of pictures! Of real everyday heroes)

What's out? What was out but is back in?

I like the Reinvent for Your Passion and Real-Women Tested Skin and Hair Tips in your October magazine.

Keep up the good work. Real women need good friends in magazines like yours. Not thick glossy magazines of useless "information".
--Christine Nichols

Thanks for asking your readers what they think about this topic. This is a particularly timely subject for me as I recently grappled with how to dress the first week at my new job.

Just last Sunday, on the eve of my new position as a Program Manager for a visible government contract, I stood in my closet and tried to strike a balance between the varying types of messages I could send to my new colleagues through dress. To accessorize or not to accessorize? Dark pants suit (boring) or skirt suit with a bright colored shell complemented by red pumps? I viewed the dark suit conveying the message of seriousness, competence, and take-no-prisoners. I viewed the outfit I really wanted to wear as "me," but was concerned that I would convey a message to some that I viewed work as a fashion show.

First Published September 26, 2011

Share Your Thoughts!


Kiyomi Irihara11.19.2011

THANK YOU for selecting a lovely woman of color as your Grand Prize Beauty Search Winner. She and all the other women exude beauty from within as well. My first More Magazine was purchased from the newstand as I was attracted to the cover picture of Ann Curry. She and I share similar backgrounds and it was great to read about her. What I (and many other of my friends) would like to see is an increased number of women of color on the COVER of your magazine as featured bios. There are a plethora of talented and accomplished women to choose from in the entertainment industry. Be Brave, Lesley, do it! You'll be amazed at the results.
A faithful reader,

Julie Watters10.26.2011

I just received my very first issue of More. I subscribed after hearing several friends speak favorably of the magazine and the fact it's geared towards women my age.
On page 142 of the October 2011 issue, in the article entitled "Death and the Maidens" the author states Rebekah Adams (one of the "Maidens") "studied communications in college and did stints in the air force and the Minnesota Air National Guard..."
As an Air Force daughter,wife and mom, it is important to point out one does not do "stints" in our nation's military. A person takes an oath to uphold our constitution and obey the orders of our President. That same military member, no matter how long or short the time served, is laying his/her life on the line in service for our freedoms. It is disappointing to me More chose to say someone did stints in the military. One does stints working in the service industry, retail, etc. Also, the words Air Force should be capitalized as were Minnesota Air National Guard.
All our service members, past, present and future, as well as our branches of service, rather or not you agree with with the mission, should have our utmost respect.
I thought long and hard about making this comment and have come to the conclusion, in light of our Nation's current situation, it's important my voice is heard.


As much as I usually enjoy reading the articles in MORE, to see the lovely clothes and accessories' descriptions followed by "price available upon request" does NOT make me want to inquire about their(obviously)ridiculously, unrealistic cost.
When did it become accepted practice to fill the pages of magazines with items that perhaps only 10% of the population(if that)could even aspire to purchase?
In today's economy, I think this behavior is beyond
irresponsible...unless your intent is to further depress your over-50 readers, thereby causing them to require even more of the medications produced by the drug makers who provide so many of the ads we must wade through in each issue.
It seems to me that you have lost sight of your target audience: real women OVER 40.
Lets get back to realistic prices, please.

Adele Ellis10.15.2011

I look forward to the diverse issues in each of your magazines. There is always a topic that seems to be a part of my life and appears at the right moment. One of the articles in the October 2011 issue was about the migraine addition link. I have suffered from migraines for many years and finally went to a neurologist last April after begging my PCP to let me go to a specialist. The neurologist did give me a prescription for a triptan drug to stop an attack but what he really gave me that has actually stopped my migraines was a vitamin regime. His office and partnership shares this "cocktail" of vitamins to purchase that for me was a godsend. I was suffering from migraines that lasted at least three days two or three times a month and since April I haven't had one yet (this is mid October.) I maybe "jinxing" myself saying this but having been 6 months migraine free I'm happy enough with that! I am in perimenopause as well and know that the vitamins may be part of the factor as well as my hormone changes but I was curious why this type of solution wasn't mentioned in the article. Is this only offered by few doctors? It's not a cure-all but something certainly worth investigating.

PB Lear10.09.2011

I generally am inspired by the article in MORE magazine, which is why I subscribe; however, I am very disappointed in your Healthy Eating article in the October 2011 issue. It was misleading and full of incongruous statements. For example, the very first paragraph states that the authors of a recent report indicate that “the authors question why doctors and other medical experts routinely counsel overweight people to get rid of extra pounds even though scientists, after decades of intense research, have yet to find a reliable prescription for weight loss”. The idea that medical experts counsel people to lose weight and the idea that scientists haven’t found a reliable method for losing weight have nothing to do with each other. Doctors know that people need to be at a healthy weight to maintain their health, and the solution is actually quite simple - - people need to take responsibility for themselves better by eating right and getting regular exercise.
Being overweight is very problematic, and yet the interview with a purported nutrition professor indicated that it is not nearly as bad as we might think. Wrong! Excess weight leads to a lack of energy, a lack of self-esteem, and a multitude of potential health problems that can be prevented at healthy weights. This is common sense. I have personally been 30 – 40 pounds overweight for at least 10 years, so I know how difficult it is to lose and keep weight off, especially given the temptations in our society and eating habits, but that’s no excuse to encourage people to stay unhealthy.
The article did nothing to encourage healthier eating and/or regular exercise. It didn’t make any constructive suggestions. In my opinion, that article does a disservice to your readers. It should have been better balanced in numerous ways.

AM 10.06.2011

I'm not the biggest fan of your magazine to be honest. I received a subscription as a birthday gift :/ BUT, the article written by Amanda Robb, telling us about her "plastic surgery" and her young daughter telling her it was "about time" was simply offensive. I wish Amanda would have spent her $25,000 on therapy instead of fixing her face. Seems to me she has much bigger problems then not be the prettiest woman around. Her poor daughter is doomed. Shame on you More.

Love your magazine - but what were you all thinking when choosing the photo accompanying the great bit on "Sexist Nostalgia"? Too graphic. I had to rip the photo out of the magazine in order to comfortably focus on the article. Yes, the photo represents the fact that she "thwarts a rapist by stabbing him with her stiletto." Yes, I look to your magazine for the “beauty and brains” features that Lesley Jane Seymour talks about in the Editor’s Letter. However, I’m not looking to your magazine for graphic representation of violence. There are plenty of other media outlets for that.


Enjoyed all the articles in your October issue but none more than 'Big Love". Touching and filled with kindness and compassion, made me weep tears of joy and hope.
Thank you so much for including this lovely story in your magazine. It's timely and very, very important!

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