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A How to for Woman’s Masturbation

This story contains mature or graphic content.

I was reading a UseNet site, and the topic of masturbation came up. One lady said she didn’t really know how to, that she had never masturbated to orgasm, and so this was posted there in order to assist her. Enjoy!

There is a necessarily graphic discussion of how a woman can masturbate below. Just so you are aware!

As I posted there, this is far from the only way to do it! 

The first thing to do is make yourself comfortable. Set the stage, if you will. Put on a pair of loose sweatpants, find a place where you feel comfortable. Make certain that there won’t be anyone interrupting you and indulge in a glass of wine. This is your time.

Put on some music that relaxes you, or if you’d like that, or pop an X-rated video into the player, and start it. Take the flat palms of your hands and gently rub them across your chest, above your breasts, then bring them down a little, and stroke the sides of your breasts. Gently, always gently. Using the tips of your fingers, pull on the Aureoles (the large, darker circles of skin that surround the nubs of your breasts, then tweak the tips of your nipples … Pull on the tips with two fingers, or twist them if you prefer, teasing them to the point that they become engorged and stiff. If it feels better, use some lubricant … Use KY or, saliva, whatever you like.

Lie back and enjoy the sensation you are bringing to yourself … Know that this is hurting no-one else, and just bringing more joy into the world, joy that your body was meant to feel, that it was made to feel. Taking one hand away from your breast, allow the fingertips to explore your sex, tracing around various parts of your anatomy … Feel the soft, yielding flesh of your outer lips, pull them open gently, and slide one finger up and down the opening … feel the slipperiness that your body is making, your natural lubrication. Explore the Labia Minora (your inner lips) and revel in how different they feel from the thicker fleshy Labia Majora … slide you first two fingers up and down, up and down, enjoying the touch.

You can imagine that the fingers bringing you the pleasure are your own, or someone else’s, it doesn’t really matter. The only priority is YOUR pleasure.

When you are ready, let them drift towards the top of the parting of the lips, and find the small swelling area at the top known as your Clitoris, or Clit, for short. If your fingers are moist from your secretions, you can start to gently run them over this area, and the head of the Clit, your “Love Button” will start to show itself. It was hidden by a small piece of flesh, called the hood, until your excitement reached this point. If you need more moisture, you can use your own saliva (just lick or spit on your fingertips), you can use the bottled variety of lube, or you can slip the tips of the fingers you are planning on using to pleasure yourself into the opening of your sex, and get some there. But whatever the source, be certain that you have something there. Poking at your Clit without lubrication will just hurt, at best, or injure you at worst!

But once you have little lubrication going, start to rub your fingers up and down the area, or move in small circular movements, whichever feels best. Keep the pace slow and regular at first, try imagining the pace of the Jeopardy clock counting the time for Final Jeopardy if you need something to help you keep pace. Then, as your excitement starts to build, move faster, or slower, or whatever feels best. Push as hard or as softly as you wish, whatever makes you feel best

Your other hand doesn’t have do be just sitting there! You can use it to squeeze your nipple, or you could slide your middle finger inside of your pussy, or two if you want, if that would feel good right then. You can move this finger in and out, finger fucking yourself, or just move it in whatever way makes you feel good. Remember, the guiding principle should be, “if it feels good, DO IT!”

As you feel yourself building towards the peak of pleasure that is an orgasm, remember, you don’t have to slow down, you can just go, and go and go until you cannot hold back any more. Let yourself go, let yourself fall over that abyss of pleasure … and then, when you have started to calm down, when your heart begins to slow to its normal lub-DUB, lub-DUB that you know … don’t be in a big hurry to leave. Savor the moment. Breathe in deeply, Breathe out. And perhaps next time, you will have a lover, a patient lover who truly cares about your pleasure, who can bring you over that peak. Then wash up, shower if you wish, and go on with your life …

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