Most single women struggle in creating an amazing relationship with the right man, someone they really want to keep for a lifetime. Are you sick of having Mr. Wrong in your life? Are you sick of ending up from one jerk to another? Why is it so easy for other women to fall in love with a man, and for their relationships to effortlessly come together and grow ... While you keep attracting all the men out there who are “unavailable” or who seem great at first, but eventually get scared and just can’t go “deeper” with you. Have you asked yourself a question like this: is there something wrong with me? Am I unattractive, unlovable and so on …
Let me remind you of this: don’t ever underestimate yourself. If you miss the chance to catch the flickers of beauties of Aphrodite (Greek goddess of love, beauty, and sexuality) when she showered all her charm and beauty in the entire universe, then there’s nothing to worry about. Physical beauty isn’t that important what really matter is the inner beauty and the top attraction secrets that I’m about to reveal. From every guy’s point of view, men are more attracted to women who are beautiful in the inside and it’s a bonus if the girl they were dating were also beautiful physically. Have you ever heard of the famous idiomatic expression “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”? This means that different people will find different things beautiful and that the differences of opinion don’t matter greatly.
In addition to that, physically unattractive doesn’t necessary mean that you would miss the chance finding your lifetime partner. So I’m speaking to all single women out there who are already in their marrying age but are still having a hard time finding Mr. Right. Don’t be alarmed, there’s so many ways you must learn about to help you solve your dilemma. It’s not too late for you, and for all single women to embrace a wonderful life with the person we really love and who would treat us right.
The truth is, I’ve known some women who had found the perfect guy for them notwithstanding the way they look. When we say perfect guy, they are beautiful inside and out, financially stable, and every woman’s dream. A good example is my cousin Guia. I was ten years old when she got married to a German international, who was really rich, handsome, and had a good position in the government. It was like she won a jackpot. What were her attraction secrets to win her man’s heart and make this guy leave all his gorgeous and pretty ladies in favor of her? Well, definitely not her physical appearance; she was just a typical Filipina and to tell you honestly, she is not pretty. She was so petite and very dark. The description cited here is not to criticize anyone’s physical appearance, but to give you a strong overview that attractions is not merely based on physical appearance but also in some other characteristics.
I’m about to take you “behind the scenes” in the male mind and also give you a perspective that most women never see or realize. I will tell you exactly what men really want. It is like they are craving for an ice cream. We all we know ice cream is delicious, but it could be more appetizing if you know its major uniqueness like flavor and content.
Now listen carefully.
What you are about to discover something most women will never know when it comes to attracting men. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every single women out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make men chase you around like crazy even if you are short, fat, or ugly! Trust me, you don’t want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read.
Imagine attracting a man emotionally and intellectually in such a way that he absolutely can’t resist wanting to be around you.
Here are some attraction secrets that single women should know.
1. Feel You’re Beautiful
You’ve got to believe in your heart that you are beautiful and feel it, and the world will believe right with you. Be confident to carry yourself no matter what other people may say. As the song of Christina Aguilera goes, “I am beautiful no matter what they say. Words can’t bring me down. I am beautiful in every single way.” You might not necessarily be the most physically attractive woman in the room, but there’s just something about you that men find irresistible.
2. Don’t Hide Your Sexuality
God created you as woman, so be a woman!
Don’t hide your womanhood. Be comfortable with your sexuality. If you are a woman, you must act as woman and be a woman. Wear a dress instead of jeans and maong pants, because clothes play a big role too. Always maintain a long beautiful hair. I am telling you that the best sex appeal of a woman is manifested in her personality and her love for life. That is so sexy.
3. Be Happy
Fill your life with full of enjoyment and learn how to live a life to the fullest. Men are attracted to happiness. If you are crabby, negative, and moody, men will have hard time approaching you. They would thought that you are so pretty but so miserable, and probably will lose their interest. A happy woman brings funny, positive thoughts and feelings to situations to create an experience that men will want to have again and again. If you have a positive outlook in life then you are a magnet. A happy smile multiplies your beauty twenty times.
4. Be Friendly
Always be friendly and cheerful to anyone. Give that wonderful impression to everyone that they can talk to you and you will be delighted. This incident usually takes place in some gatherings. If a guy is smiling at you, then return that smile, don’t be a snob. This manner is giving him the right signal that he can approach you and talk to you and everything will be fine.
Women understand the difference between liking and attraction. Women like a lot of men but they are attracted to only a few. They have a very clear idea about what they want and because of that they gravitate toward men who fit that bill. They will be nice to most men but will get attracted only to those men who make them feel special.
5. Be Humble
Always be approachable and try to listen to others. Acknowledge your ignorance outside your expertise. Be soft and vulnerable. Most guys are intimated, but this is not about how successful a woman is, it is because how she looks up herself by being arrogant. Don’t let your money, success, and position in society feed your self-esteem. Well, ladies, I’m telling you this is a big turnoff for men. Just keep your foot on the ground. Be humble.
6. Be Affirming
What do you think guys are craving? Uhmm, based on what I’ve read on a spiritual book, the answer isn’t sex, or money. The affirmation of his existence, stories, and his feelings is what they are craving. If we women crave for love and romance, then men crave for genuine praise. Tell him how great his work is. It’s not flattery. Don’t be shy to tell your guy how much you love him, and how great he is.
7. Be Modest
I noticed that most women now a day are liberated; to get the attention of men, they wear very revealing clothes, because they think guys will find them so attractive if they show off their cleavage and wear short skirts that don’t even cover their butt. Of course you can attract them, but what kind of men?
Modesty attracts potential husbands. Because immodesty attracts lust and men who would never respect you. You can be very modest and be very attractive, very feminine by wearing simple dress. Not an old-fashioned one, but still fashionable.
8. Be Yourself
Please don’t wish to be someone else. Have passions. Have beliefs. Have preferences. Be the best person you can be but always be yourself. A woman with these kind of attributes will have options and things to do that keep them satisfied so they don’t feel like they’re left out if they’re not invited to something. (And even if they do, they certainly don’t complain about it or even mention it—they find something to do that makes them happy.) This trait is somehow striking to most men.
9. Be Attractive
Be attractive by wearing classic dress with those simple styles. Most men don’t like complex clothing. One accent is nice something to attract his attention. Put on light makeup, and if long hair fits you, wear it. Take note, long hairs attract a lot of guys. Also be healthy because vitality and energy are always sexy.
10. Be Mysterious
By nature, man is a hunter. He likes the thrill of the chase. If the prey is chasing him, the hunter loses interest very quickly. They could be also like butterflies: the more you chase it the more it eludes. So women, always be like flowers in the garden, we should wait men to land in our hands. Always be reserved and never be an easy to get person, you’ve got to respect yourself first and that you will be valued.
I hope this gives you a clearer picture about the kind of woman you can be in order to attract the right person. This about seriously committing yourself to search your lifetime partner, but also don’t forget to pray and ask God to help you find the right one for you, because I believe prayer is powerful.