More: Speaking of encouragement, in 1998 you wrote an inspirational book titled Going Live: An Anchorwoman Reports Good News. What words of inspiration are you giving your sister right now?
SAR: I tell her to pray, prepare and proceed. The power is on. My husband, Willie, while he was alive, told me that as I was preparing for a difficult assignment.
More: I read somewhere he passed away.
SAR: Yes. In 2002, Willie died of colon cancer. He did not know he should have gotten a colonoscopy. By the time he was 50 years old, Willie had stage 4 colon cancer. Robin was with me every step of the way during that painful time.
More: Were you and your siblings always this close?
SAR: We were military kids. We would always go to strange new places, get a new home on a strange new base and not know anyone. We only had each other. I remember my mom used to always have us eat meals by candlelight. She thought it was a nice thing to do because of all the changing we had to constantly do. She wanted the room to glow and remind us about our unity.
More: Cancer took the life of your husband and is now hurting your sister. How come you are not angry about what this horrible disease has done to your family?
SAR: Things happen to everyone. Life is a journey. There are hills and there are valleys. You have to walk by faith.
More: Words to live by.
SAR: I don’t know why Robin has had to go through cancer not once but twice. I don’t know why Willie was taken from me so early in life. Not only had he just turned 50, but we had just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary.
More: How awful for you.
SAR: You know, right after his funeral I had this dream about Willy. I asked him, “Why did you leave me?” He had the most peaceful look on his face when he replied, “This was just a health thing. But if I knew then what I know now, I would have never worried about anything.”
More: And today?
SAR: In 2007, after five years of being a widow, I remarried a wonderful man, Ron Nabonne.
More: Congratulations. I love happy endings.
SAR: That is what I mean. Life is full of surprises. I have seen the shadows of life, but I have also seen the dazzling sunlight.
More: Because Robin is adored by millions of people and the outpouring of emotion has been overwhelming, you are using this opportunity to raise awareness of a very important cause called Be the Match. Tell me about that.
SAR: Bethematch.org is the place where you can get all of your questions answered. It tells you about the importance of donating, why you should donate and how easy it is to do. You can read testimony from people who donated and received bone marrow. Most people will never find bone marrow from their own family, so the more people that join, the better. This is so vital, because there are millions of people who are dying and can be saved if others would just say yes.
More: Who is an ideal candidate?
SAR: They are looking for people between the ages of 18 and 60. They are also urging minorities to apply because they really need them to sign up. Bone marrow can only be found in one’s ethnic group. African Americans, Native Americans, Asians and Hispanics are underrepresented. I hope people will get registered in case one of their own family members finds themselves in need of this service.
More: In addition to promoting this cause, you founded a charity called Each One, Save One.
SAR: Yes. I cofounded that organization, and it is a mentorship program. We train, help and screen mentors in our schools and mentor a child for an hour a week.