Women will look at anything I write and not understand the purpose, so I will attempt to explain: I call it "survival" writing. Us guys don't understand how women think or why they do certain things. Those are the facts. In order for me to accept some of the things my wife (or any female I encounter) does that baffles me, I make up theories that explain why she does whatever and, therefore, I am accepting. Many men just get mad or lose control over something their female friends do. I am not into drama, and by having my theories to fall back on, I just accept whatever my wife does as being beyond her control. My survival depends on me not getting my blood pressure up when my wife wrecks the car, or goes shopping, or does something really dumb. I shrug off whatever it was she did by writing a theory that explains why she had no control, and therefore, cannot be blamed. Granted, she does not subscribe to my theories and neither will any woman reading this. But if they would share my theories with their male counterparts, they may find their own lives improved because those men who believe my theories will become more tolerant.