I'm a professional woman who is still traumatized by turning 30 six months ago. I've spent the last four years working for the American Red Cross before getting laid off in September. I'm applying for full time jobs while contemplating going back to school for a Ph.D. I've been happily married for almost 10 years, and we have no children-just four cats that THINK they're our children. I love reality TV (in moderation), NASCAR, country music, and making beaded jewelry.