I am a married, stay at home, mother of four children who range in age from 12 through 2. I live right outside of Pittsburgh, PA and about 30 minutes from the town I grew up in. I met my husband in highschool and we started dating in the spring after graduating. We've been married 14 years (almost to the day) and it's been great, and it's been good, and it's been bad, and it's been awful, and it's been okay, then back to good, to sometimes outstanding, but thankfully, it's never been over. We've come very close before, but we're working on putting that completely behind us. The question is, "can you really ever put it behind you?"