I’m acutely aware of the pressures of present picking (my family is not shy!) and I like to shop hard to produce that lump-in-the-throat reaction. That said, there are only so many store hours in a week, only so many meaningful gift moments I can produce, and only so many elves I can bribe.
So, to avoid pre- and post-present-picking stress disorder (as well as impulse buys and excess spending), I start with a master think list. Here it is, so far:
Unique piece of jewelry
At-home spa
Cashmere turtleneck dress
Fanatic Dad
Of-the-Month Club—wine, indie movies, puzzles, meat …
Archived baseball articles, printed out and bound
Roadtrip grill
O (Big) Brother Where Art Thou
Gadget-carrying backpack
Solio Solar charger
Bachelor Brother
Hipster tee
Turkish shave certificate
Table tennis table with scorer
Spa day
Ionic crystal Himalayan salt bowl lamp with massage balls
Glam mag subscription
My Gorgeous Granny
Digital photo frame
Cashmere-lined leather gloves
Exotic teas and accessories
My New Nephew
Classic baby literature
Maximum plush baby blankie
Lullaby relaxation machine
Illustory create your own book
Karaoke machine
Wild woolly tights
Troubled Teens
Funky slipper socks
Hand bound journal
EcoSphere pod
Printed silk scarf
Fragrant French soaps
Audubon singing clock
Thrill-Seeking Aunty
Boxing gloves
Noise-canceling headphones
Adventure day—bungee jumping, rock climbing, or sailing class
Foodie Friend
Delivery of locally-grown organic produce
Revolving pizza oven
Pastry-making class
Fit Friend
Mini stepper exerciser
High tech windbreaker
Healthy cookbook
Body pillow
Wood barrel ice cream maker
Pregnancy journal
Cubicle Mate
Holiday smencils
Cardboard mounted deer
Framed mantras
The Hostess with the Mostest
Prettily-packaged candles
St. Judes Hospital ornament
Spa eye pillow